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Here come the nerves

I am getting married this Saturday (only 3 days away! eek ) and my nerves are really starting to set in. Any tips or suggestions for how to deal with them? Maybe if I just picture myself at Disney it will calm me down laugh

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The only thing I can offer is to just breath. Do you live together already? If the answer is yes than you are pretty much married. The "big day" real just amounts to getting your church and government to certify you. It's ok, everything will be beautiful, everyone will have a wonderful time, and it will all go by in a flash. Get lots of pictures and be sure to take a couple of moments to stand back and take it all in.

Congratulations, it's all gonna be just fine!

Peace, light, and love to you and yours muchlove

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Kristen K. wrote:
The only thing I can offer is to just breath. Do you live together already? If the answer is yes than you are pretty much married. The "big day" real just amounts to getting your church and government to certify you. It's ok, everything will be beautiful, everyone will have a wonderful time, and it will all go by in a flash. Get lots of pictures and be sure to take a couple of moments to stand back and take it all in.

Congratulations, it's all gonna be just fine!

Peace, light, and love to you and yours muchlove

I wholeheartedly agree with Kristen. Try to relax as much as you can on Friday so you can be fresh on Saturday. My best wishes for a wonderful life together and lots of pixie dust to you and yours.

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Kristen K. wrote:
The only thing I can offer is to just breath. Do you live together already? If the answer is yes than you are pretty much married. The "big day" real just amounts to getting your church and government to certify you. It's ok, everything will be beautiful, everyone will have a wonderful time, and it will all go by in a flash. Get lots of pictures and be sure to take a couple of moments to stand back and take it all in.

Congratulations, it's all gonna be just fine!

Peace, light, and love to you and yours muchlove

Yes we do live together. We've been living together for about 4 years now. I'm just nervous to be up in front of people at the ceremony, giving a short speech and the first dance. I'm not big on being the centre of attention but when you're the bride you really don't have much choice Wink
I'm sure everything will be fine. Thanks for the well wishes! awesome

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Congratulations to you and your future hubby! Make sure to try and stay in the moment and really look around you and experience and take in everything. I know you've probably heard it a million times, but the day goes by SO fast!

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Congratulations to the two of you!! Remember to breath and relax. It's your party, enjoy it! clapping

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Congratulations yay

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Congratulations! Agreed with Kristen. Breathe. Do relaxing things, and like Allie said, try to stay present.

Any fun honeymoon plans? Forgive me if you've said so someplace else Smile I've been away from the boards for a bit.

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Congrats ! Agreed, it goes by way to fast, scrappy and I have been married 33 years this year and "Wow, where did they go"!

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Lizzy_B wrote:
Congratulations! Agreed with Kristen. Breathe. Do relaxing things, and like Allie said, try to stay present.

Any fun honeymoon plans? Forgive me if you've said so someplace else Smile I've been away from the boards for a bit.

We are actually going to Disney World yay It will be my 12th visit and his 5th but this time to switch things up we are staying at Port Orleans Riverside (we usually stay at a Value) and we made some ADR's for the first time biggrin

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Considering how fast the engagement went ( it was about 8 months) I can only imagine how fast the actual day will go by! I'm hoping I won't be too depressed the next day when it's all over sad
I'll definately try and remember to breathe and take everything in!

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Spook wrote:
Considering how fast the engagement went ( it was about 8 months) I can only imagine how fast the actual day will go by! I'm hoping I won't be too depressed the next day when it's all over sad
I'll definately try and remember to breathe and take everything in!

But you'll have Disney to look forward to! mickey

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Allie wrote:
Spook wrote:
Considering how fast the engagement went ( it was about 8 months) I can only imagine how fast the actual day will go by! I'm hoping I won't be too depressed the next day when it's all over sad
I'll definately try and remember to breathe and take everything in!

But you'll have Disney to look forward to! mickey

This is very true! And your great trip report is making me even more excited! biggrin

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congrats

Enjoy your day on Saturday and Disney will be right around the corner.

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congrats congrats congrats

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I made it!! Whoo hoo! yay

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pictures???

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Congratulations! I want to hear all about it! And ditto Joann...we'd all love to see pictures!

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JoAnn C wrote:
pictures???

here's one of our "cake", candy buffet, and us Smile

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You look beautiful.

love the cake and candy buffet

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beautiful, all around. Congratulations! Were all your guest impressed with the Disney touches?

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Congratulations! The candy buffet looks yummy.

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Congrats....all the pictures are great...you look beautiful, got to love a candy buffet, and I love that your wedding cake is made from rice krispy treats....I've never seen that before

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Thanks everyone! I think my guests were impressed with the Mickey touches however it was pretty much expected laugh
I'll post some more pictures as they come in mickey
The candy buffet went down pretty fast too!

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Congrats! All looks great!

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Congrats clapping yay mickey

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LOVE IT!!! Yall are a very cute couple!! I love love love love your cake. I would have never thought to do that!! Congratulations!!!!

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Love the rice krispy treat cake! So original! And you look gorgeous...congratulations and have a great time on your honeymoon! mickey

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Congrats!

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You look absolutely beautiful Erica, Congrats!

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Best wishes Erica. You look beautiful and happy. I love your wedding cake....rice krispie treats my favorite. Have a wonderful time in Disney.