Welome and might I say how brave you are to attempt nye at Disney! We're local (kinda - Tampa) and have done nye several times. My dh loves it, not so much for me. Just be prepared for the crowds of a lifetime, like nothing I have ever seen, even at wdw.
We had 5 of us together and it was extremely difficult to get anywhere together through the crowds. We had to form a chain and work our way through the crowds and it took a long time. We have always gone to EPCOT, but don't know why. The fireworks are incredible. Our best family memory is: as we were passing a particular corner in EPCOT, my ds who was about 12 at the time, announced "what's that funny smell" as we rounded the corner, we were all hit by the very strong smell of pot! Of course my kids had no idea and my dh and I just smirked to each other. Later, when we regrouped at Boardwalk (which I recommend to spend some time, a little less crowded) , we told them what it was that they smelled and my son was absolutely appalled. We were shocked at his reaction, but growing up w Disney as his playground, he was so mad that someone would have the nerve to smoke pot at Disney! Years later whenever we pass that corner, someone will make a comment and get him started all over again! Disney is revered in our family and my kids have grown up there, so to think anyone would smoke pot there is just offensive!
Lots of excessive drinking (and smoking) at EPCOT which we weren't crazy about with younger kiddos. Something about drunk people in a crowd, might as well be in times square, except the fireworks are better at Disney! We are not prudes and I get a beer or margarita at EPCOT now and then, but it was out of hand. If we try again, maybe we'll try mk where they don't sell alcohol.
You'll have fun, if nothing else it's an experience. Watch what parks you're in and when. We go up later in the afternoon and a lot of times on holidays MK is closed because it's at capacity. Might want to pick a park and stay there. AK has been closed due to capacity also. I'm not sure how that works, 5 people leave, they let 5 in? We just stay away if it's that packed!
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