Hey people, don't forget about Subvet & Jan. They went to WDW often for years and never went into a park. By the way hello TerryM and welcome to WDW For Grownups!
Sammy Duvals at Bay Lake have water skiing, Jet ski rentals, Parasailing (which I just did and was fantastic!) just to name a few things.
You just may never "get it", and one time you could just snap and get hooked. You definitely would want a Deluxe Resort if you're just going for the resort and not the parks. Disney does a lot of refurbs, so its good you are researching. The Polynesian Village Resort is under major refurb at the moment, adding DVC (Disney Vacation Club) and adding new restaurants, getting rid of some asbestos issues and the main pool will be closing soon for quite a while, so I would recommend staying away from there for the next year at least.
We do love roaming the resorts, taking the shuttle boats around Seven Sea Lagoon just for the ride, shopping, the restaurants and such,the food and the food and the food and the...... sorry, got carried away. But like most others, we couldn't "not" go to the parks, especially the Magic Kingdom. Good luck and hope it all works out for you. We are always here for questions.
Check out some of our members trip reports, might help you out there.