Oh, man, I SO agree with you. It's very depressing knowing that there is no certain time of the year when you can go and not worry about the crowds. Obviously, this is good for WDW's bottom line, but as a guest, it's just less enjoyable to be on property when it's crowded. My first trip in 2005 was end of January-early February, and it was great. No fastpasses necessary, I walked onto every ride I wanted. I really expected that when the recession hit, crowd levels would go down, but those Disney folks were very smart with their package deals. They know how to keep the business coming...
The other thing that depresses me is just how expensive it is to stay on site and buy a ticket to the parks. I've been desperately trying to find a time to get down there for a weekend during the Food & Wine Festival, because it just sounds so wonderful (my kind of vacation: grazing my way around the world!). But even if I were to stay at a value resort, once I add in airfare, it becomes a $500-600 weekend. Which is way out of my league. 